Section 2: The Transition Mindset
One of the best ways to prepare for your next life chapter is to develop a Transition Mindset.
Having the right mindset is essential to a successful transition. Many of the obstacles throughout your transition require mental resilience and fortitude.
Building a Transition Mindset not only sets expectations of the path ahead, but also forces you to be proactive in the actions you take.
The following Mindset Principles will help in developing a Transition Mindset.
Mindset Principle #1
I am open to new opportunities, experiences, ideas, and changes.
The world outside the military might feel different from the structure and routine of military life. Our instinct is to find comfort in something similar to our past.
Instead of seeking what feels familiar and safe, explore new possibilities. You have the ability and freedom to entirely redefine your life. Let go of the things that no longer serve you to make way for something new.
Mindset Principle #2
I won't know everything, and that's okay!
Even with all of the resources available, it's impossible to know everything. Learn and prepare as much as possible, but reassure yourself that some things only come through time and experience.
Mindset Principle #3
I will embrace failure.
We attach a negative connotation to the thought of failing. Doing so adds undue stress and frustration to our lives.
Instead of running from it, failure can be a tool for growth. Each failure shows us what not to do, which brings us one step closer to the optimal solution.
You'll undoubtedly make mistakes during your transition. That's part of the process. The important thing is that you learn from them to continually evolve and grow.
Mindset Principle #4
I will create clarity through quietness.
The time between life chapters is an opportunity to step back and reflect on what you really want. This is difficult when you immediately jump into something new.
Even a few days free from everyday distractions can help clarify what you desire most.
Mindset Principle #5
I will proactively plan and strategize my transition.
Once you clarify what's important, the next step is to develop a plan. Without a plan, there's no sense of direction or progress.
You need a clear series of steps to guide you. Aside from direction, a plan provides structure, accountability, and highlights potential gaps.